Sunday, December 26, 2010

Game is Ultimately Reactive

The alpha male is unfazed by the world. He cares not for its impulses, impositions, and predilections. Reality is his arena, the world his playground.

Yet we are reactive.


By tautology, the law of excluded middle, the men with female abundance reached that status either by intention or by incidence.
 

The former encompass the mindful seducer, the pick-up artist, the playboy, and the wealthy man who pursued his riches for sex.

Rock stars, famous artists, and the wealthy via inheritance, luck, or unadulterated passion for money land in the latter category. 


Both stand abreast in spirit and skill, but reached their position through different means. We (for if you are reading this blog, then undoubtedly you belong in the former) faked being attractive individuals by mechanics until we understood what being attractive means.


And therein lies the fundamental reactive nature of our class of alpha male.


If an alternate reality prescribed that rock stars yield no pussy magnetism and comedians do, the alpha male by incidence would still pursue his musical passion without regard for women. Yet we would look towards comedians for attractive behavior.


You may tell yourself you have reached a zenith of clarity. You may insist your game has reached a state where you truly do not look towards the world for validation. You may defy the world controls you. You are also wrong.


If excessive complimenting, the wittiest banter, and frequent calling yielded strong female affection, you would do it. Subconsciously or intentionally, if you wanted to get fucked or marry a sweetheart, you would do it.


And so what?


Game is utilitarian. The world-famous actor gets barraged by women until it is almost a nuisance. He has no game, for game is purposeful seduction. Game is reactive imitation of the successful. Once the societal or personal achievement is primary and the abundance of beautiful girls tangential, it is no longer game.


We cannot forget our genesis. Even if you are goddamn good at getting pussy, if what you ultimately love more is the resulting female companionship and not
the tranquility or solidity of the alpha state, you would be a different person if Hollywood was reality. You are, at the core, reactive.

And so what?


This is fun.

1 comment:

  1. "You are, at the core, reactive."

    1. Unless you're a natural alpha to whom women are just a distraction.

    2. You have the wrong definition of "alpha male". An alpha male is a male who gets a lot of sex - either has a high number of sexual partners, or a high degree of sexual success - it was originally a borrowed term from ethology. The more modern, cultural meaning of alpha male is "man who has the traits of a man who gets a lot of sex".

    Interesting entry, thanks.

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